Earlier I was talking to a friend who was amazed that God actually answered his prayers. This was not a small request, but a major one, and I am sure he was unsure anyone could help him. I know that there are times when we really wonder if anyone up there is listening, and hey, the same thing happens to me. When I am really close to despair sometimes I wonder too. So I thought maybe it might help if I said something about this to the rest of you.
Over the years I have learned that God always answers prayers. Sometimes God says "yes," sometimes "no," but the very worst one for most of us, including me, is "WAIT AWHILE!" I have to admit that I hate that answer. Now I am sure a lot of you out there think that if God is the supreme Lord of the universe why do we have to wait? It's simple. God cannot violate any human's free will. That is the most precious gift we were given and to do so would be to go back on his promise to let us make our own decisions. God gave us the ability to love and believe in him or not. The problem then is when we ask for something that requires God to act in another person's life to get him or her to go along. As human beings we know that sometimes that is going to take some doing. Some of the things we want require a lot of work on God's part to convince someone to go along, and that often takes some time.
There have been times, for example, when I was really in need of money. Sometimes when I prayed for help I received a rather quick answer and funds I desperately needed came from the most unexpected of sources. At other times I was told that what I wanted wasn't really necessary or wasn't going to be good for me, and that if I thought about it long enough I would see that too. Hey, believe it or not, I did.
I have also been told to wait awhile. That's rough, to say the least. When that happens we are all tempted to think God doesn't care, isn't concerned or even that he hates us. Then, when months or years pass and our prayer is finally answered we are amazed and surprised. Maybe we had given up all hope. It really just means that the others whose cooperation we needed finally said okay.
Do you have a need? Just ask. You don't have to talk to God in flowery or stilted language. Just be yourself. Simply say, "God, I really need your help here." And if you really want a yes answer or you don't know what to pray for, just ask that God's most perfect will for you will be accomplished. You may not get what you want, but you will be happy with what finally comes to pass, and like me, you might just see that what God had in mind was far better than what you wanted.
God bless you all.
Waiting on God
Posted on Tue, Aug 09 2005 @ 9:27 AM [EST]
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Father Gary:
You have not heard from me yet, but I have been reading. You mentioned flowery prayers. It's true, I used to try to learn to pray with those BIG words, but once while on a missionary trip to Kosova it was revealed to me that those words meant nothing. Who talks that way anyhow? Now I pray from the heart in my own "Easy to Understand" words. One other point I would like to make if I might. So many people put a huge emphasis on praying but not listening. I've found that GOD will talk to you if you just give him the time to. If you asked your father something and then ran off and did something else without waiting or listening for a reply, chances are you wouldn't get one. I make it a point in my prayer time to lay back a listen (wait on GOD as you put it) and have noticed I hear things much more clearly. That doesn't mean I always get an answer, but I wouldn't know if I didn't listen.
Comment By:
Trucker Warren on Tue, Aug 16 2005 @ 1:38 AM [EST]
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Trucker Warren on Tue, Aug 16 2005 @ 1:38 AM [EST]
I couldn't agree with you more, Warren. You need to take time to listen. That's one reason when I drop into churches I like to just sit there for a while. I suppose that's the same thing people mean when they say, "I have to pray about that." They mean they need to take their request to the Lord and wait for a response. All the best!
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